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Whether you work full-time, part-time or for yourself, you probably have a nagging little Chihuahua that lies under your desk, behind your computer monitor or right in your lap. He’s not a real dog, but your No. 1 pet peeve probably sits up to bark pretty often and has the potential to reduce your productivity or even ruin your whole day. Mine is a fairly common one: receiving something late when I haven’t been warned in advance. It’s usually a pet peeve that neat-and-tidy planners have, which is where I differ from the norm. My workspace is downright messy. Spontaneity stimulates me much more than meticulous preparation. So what have I done about it? I decided long ago that a crusade against unannounced lateness would be just plain ineffective. So I picked up my little Chihuahua, took him out of my messy workspace and gave him some training. Here’s where I am now: 1. I anticipate when my pet peeve will nag me. I usually get warning signs, often as simple as a colleague’s failure to acknowledge an e-mail reminder. Willfully ignoring such signs, and hoping that people will reform their ways, would be foolish. Instead, I exert whatever polite influence I can on folks in advance, accepting the limits. Then I envision what a late delivery will require of me, make a quick mental sketch of how to face it and move on. 2. I laugh at my pet peeve. Sometimes prevention doesn’t work, but if you step back to observe yourself in the moment, you’ll see the comedy in it. |