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DAVAO CITY—It
was not easy for the local parish church to grant
funeral rites Saturday for Mariannet Amper, 12, a poor
girl who hanged herself over alleged depression because
of her family’s poverty, according to the priest who
held the liturgical Mass here.
Fr.
Zenon Ampong, parish priest of the St. Francis of Assisi
church in Maa, south of downtown Davao City, told the
BusinessMirror he had to consult with other Church
leaders in the Archdiocese of Davao City before he broke
the “good news” to family members of Mariannet.
Amper
hanged herself on November 2 over her inability to
attend regular classes and even regular Sunday Masses.
Many Filipino communities hold the belief the Church
would not grant Church rites to suicides.
“Our
assumption here is that the mind of the person who
commits suicide is already impaired,” Father Ampong
said, “and therefore he cannot decide fairly well on
what he would be committing.”
He said
he sought the advice of Auxiliary Bishop George Rimando
and other Church officials. “We have to discern the
cases before we would allow to say Mass for the
remains.”
In his
homily on Saturday at the Santa Cruz chapel near the
house of the Ampers outside the middle-class Yñiguez
Subdivision in Maa, Ampong cautioned church attendees
“that while we are gathered here for the Mass of
Mariannet, the Church does not encourage other people to
think that it would be okay to commit suicide because it
would be okay for the Church to hold Masses [for them]
anyway.”
“On the
contrary, her suicide should serve us a lesson, that
death is only the effect of sin,” he said. “In our
society, there are many who have become victims of
injustice, that many have been forced to commit
criminality, and who would victimize others.”
Eduardo
Lucero, a head of the Liturgy of the Basic Christian
Community (BCC) in Maa, said that “actually the Canon
law has been explicit in its provisions that the Church
should not deny the faithful the sacraments.”
Lucero,
who finished his theology in the seminary but did not
continue with the priesthood, said that “many priests
have been saying Masses for cases of suicides.” He
officiated the necrological rites at the Maa Public
Cemetery.
Aurora
Lariosa, head of the BCC in Maa, said she welcomed the
Parish’s decision to celebrate Mass for Amper. “We are
very glad with this.” |