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Q:
What criteria should be used to determine if you have
been with the same company too long? Jason Morrow, Salt
Lake City
A: Your
question reminds us of a friend of ours, an investment
manager at a highly regarded company in the Midwest, who
drove to work one morning, parked his car in the usual
spot and then found he simply could not bring himself to
get out.
“I guess I
stayed on the farm one day too long,” he joked later. When
we asked him what went wrong, he answered, “It wasn’t one
thing. It was everything.” No wonder he drove home and
called in his resignation.
Obviously,
most people don’t decide they’ve overstayed at their
companies in such a dramatic fashion. Usually, angst about
work creeps in, and then builds until it consumes you. And
that can happen early or late in a career.
Gone are
the days when, after graduation, you took the best
available job and stayed for as many years as you possibly
could stand, frustration be damned. These days, it is not
unusual to hear of perfectly legitimate careers built on
multiple job stints.
So, to
your question, how can you tell when it’s time to move on?
We wouldn’t set out specific criteria as much as offer
four questions to help sort out an answer.
The first
is so simple it almost goes without saying, but the fact
that a lot of people don’t confront it, including our
friend who ended up stuck in his car—a Harvard MBA, by the
way—suggests we go ahead and put it out there.
Look, do
you want to go to work every morning?
This is
not a matter to be overthought. Does the prospect of going
in each day excite you or fill you with dread? Does the
work feel interesting and meaningful or are you just going
through motions to pull a paycheck? Are you still learning
and growing?
We know of
a woman who worked in consulting for seven years. She
loved her firm and had originally planned a career with
it, but suddenly started noticing that she wished every
weekend was five days long. “Basically, I felt like we
were putting together massive books in order to make
recommendations to people who knew more than we did,” she
said. “Every day at the office, I felt a little bit more
of a hypocrite.” She now happily works on the
“frontlines,” to use her phrase, in the marketing
department of a retail company.
Second, do
you enjoy spending time with your coworkers or do they
generally bug the living daylights out of you?
We’re not
saying you should only stay in your company if you want to
barbecue with your team every weekend, but if you don’t
sincerely enjoy and respect the people you spend 10 hours
a day with, you can be sure you will eventually decide to
leave your organization. Why not make the break sooner
rather than later, and start cultivating relationships in
a company where you might actually plant roots?
Third,
does your company help you fulfill your personal mission?
Essentially, this question asks whether your company jibes
with your life’s goals and values. Does it require you,
for instance, to travel more than you’d like, given your
chosen work-life balance? Does it offer enough upward
mobility, given your level of ambition? There is no right
or wrong answer to questions such as these, only a sense
of whether you are investing your time in the right or
wrong company for you.
Fourth,
and finally, can you picture yourself in your company in a
year?
We use
that time frame because that’s how long it usually takes
to find a new, better job once you decide to move on. So
peer, as best you can, into the future, and predict where
you’ll be in the organization, what work you’ll be doing,
whom you will be managing and who will be managing you. If
that scenario strikes you with anything short of
excitement, then your runway is too short. Or put another
way, you’re just about to stay too long.
To be
clear: we’re not suggesting people quit at the first
inkling of discontent. No matter where you work, at some
point you will have to endure difficult times, and even a
deadly dull assignment, to survive a crisis or move up.
But it
makes little sense to stay and stay in a company because
of inertia. Unlock your door and get out.
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Jack
and Suzy Welch are the authors of the international
bestseller Winning (Collins). Their latest book is
Winning: The Answers: Confronting 74 of the Toughest
Questions in Business Today (Collins). They are eager to
hear about your career dilemmas and challenges at work and
look forward to answering your questions in future
columns. You can e-mail them questions at winning@nytimes.com.
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