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PSYCHIATRISTS are concerned that the feminization of
labor migration that has prompted fathers to take the
role of mothers is causing a negative effect on
children’s behavior.
Officials of the Philippine Psychiatric Association (PPA)
said the continued exodus of mothers abroad is affecting
the behavioral development of children of migrant
workers.
Grace
Macapagal, in-house psychiatrist of the Department of
Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) for crisis
intervention rehabilitation, said the feminization of
labor migration is also causing a reversal of role where
fathers are left to care for children and are normally
not prepared to do so.
“I don’t
think Filipino men are ready to evolve to that next
phase,” she said adding that based on her clinical
exposure, there are more children of migrant workers who
experience sexual and physical abuse by male relatives.
“Minsan
it’s the eldest daughter who takes up the role of the
mother who is abroad. Sometimes they also take the
sexual roles of the mother to some fathers,” she said.
Antonio
Sison, PPA treasurer, said many fathers are not ready to
take on the role of women in nurturing children.
“It’s
not easy for men to accept that. Sometimes their
acceptance also depends on how they’ve related to their
own fathers.”
Macapagal added that migration of one parent or both is
a “very painful time for children” and can cause bad
emotions to “stir up.”
“It’s
hard for them to express themselves so they go to the
Internet or other media and develop certain mindsets.”
Felicitas Soriano, president of the PPA, reiterated the
importance of conducting a study on the behavioral
effects of migration on children but added that while
psychiatrists are willing to do this, there is no
funding to pursue the project yet.
“What
will become of our children? We observe that many
children of migrant workers are becoming insecure and
drug dependents,” said Soriano adding that 70 percent of
all Filipino migrant workers are women.
Ten
percent of the
Philippines’
annual deployment of labor migrants are women who work
mostly as household workers and entertainers abroad.
Soriano
said some children of migrant workers also become
materialistic and spend their parent’s hard-earned money
on gadgets and Internet gaming because of lack of
guidance.
Whether
it is the mother who works abroad or the father,
psychiatrists warn that both have some negative effects
on children left behind.
In the
case of an absentee father, Macapagal said boys
belonging to migrant worker families develop gender
identity problems which become more “obvious when they
grow old.”
“But
there’s a way to make up for that, that’s the beauty of
our extended family,” she said adding that other members
of the family could act as surrogate parents to such
children. |